She told me I am very inpatient why cant I just find myself right now and give her time.
Her statement couldn't be any clearer as to what you need to do at this time.
That is why you are here, to find YOURSELF. DB'ing will accomplish exactly what she told you.
Re-read what she told you. My W told me the exact same thing; I didn't listen at first either. But she is telling you exactly what you need to do; it's your only shot at saving your M.
