Impatience is going to wreck any chance you have. Give her TIME. You can't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do, so if she needs time, give it to her.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.