It's the same with this...H has no grounds other than we have been seperated for over a year with no 'cohabitiation'.

The papers imply that it was an agreed seperation, which it wasn't at all.

He has been 'absent' from the kids life during most of this time.

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home