Originally Posted By: chicki
I havent read up on yr stich, but I have a question for you.

Do you still have very strong feelings for XW?
How does yr feeligns for new W differ?

Is it true that having someone else to fall back on makes it easier in all aspects?


chicki,

Please feel free to read my sitch overview at the following:

Dodo

How do I feel about my exW? Well, I had waited almost four years to be with her. I loved her when we got married. I can honestly say I loved her more each and every passing day... I told her that all the time... What I finally realized was the woman I loved was not who she really was......

I love my new wife. However, it is a much more cautious and jaded feeling. I do not know when that will change. It is what it is......

I do not think having someone else to fall back on makes a difference. You still work through the pain on a daily basis. This morning, I was reminded of this when I had a client appointment across the street from where exW worked. I remembered picking her up for lunch...

NMD

Last edited by No_More_Dodo; 11/13/08 06:25 PM.

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