Just so y'all know; our whole texting convo consisted of how she's helping get the right medical attention for her newborn; how she's saving a bunch of money with some program called Couponsense. I'm a cheap bas#$rd; so I'm really interested in that. We also talked about how to keep a M from becoming a child centered marriage; seems that they are having some issues with that. She doesn't know anything about my sitch; nor does she need to know. But I did give her some info to the effect that I am trying to recover my identity which I lost to my M.
Trying to keep the convo above board.
But just to have the activity for my W to see that I'm not standing around waiting for her is priceless in my mind. Part of my GAL. The W always said that she wished that I had friends that I could text and hang out with. Guys don't have texting convos with other guys in my experience; so I've got guy friends to hang out with and couple of other types to text back and forth to. All this is also a 180; because I used to feel that I have my W; what do I need with all that social activity. Well, I do NEED it and WANT it now. It's liberating and probably one of the best things my W has done for me. I haven't told her yet; but at the right time I will.
