The next stage, maybe

[MsMelancoly]

Hi Julia, Take the time you need to feel the loss.

(Your Quote)This is horrible and painful and I hate that I have a failed marriage behind me and that the man I married and trusted chose to follow this path.

I feel the same way and feel your pain.

Always there are 2 paths and 2 types of people. You can either blame yourself & kick yourself down forever with guilt & saddness (that would be my H's path) or kick yourslef for a bit, only a bit, mind you and then understand & learn from your mistakes. And gain the knowledge not to make those same mistakes again.

Strange, but I have twisted this past year for the most part not into a negative, but into a positive of how much I have learned, changed and grown. Keep your chin up!!