I never really did think about his feelings..again I assumed he is just going along with life...maybe liking single living so much that he does not want me...when he may be struggling with what to do next. what can I do to help him..beyond what I feel like I am doing now..for myself...or should I leave him alone to figure it all out? I always seem to want to be the fixer..the doer..duh....maybe that is why I have "done it all" aound the house all these years..I need to let others be accountable for their share..household and in the m!!!
Sue
p.s. if I ramble long enough I answer my own dilemas!!