Crud! I just did a whole long post to you and my L called, and it disappeared. But anyway, I was posting that I think you're doing a great job. Distracting is what my #1 coping mechanism too, that and exercising. A job can also give you extra self-confidence. People at jobs, bosses and supervisors usually give lots of positive reinforcement and all that. Extra money's always good too! I'm always working on trying to improve myself, and make myself a better person, and I think that's always a good idea. (((Lyn)))) Karen
