So the mystery is solved why H sent those kind of cranky/rude emails yesterday after being perfectly nice to me the day before. My L's office called today and she and H's L yesterday set up a depo of H next Friday and I meet with her Monday. H's L always sends him the emails right away and my L calls a day or 2 later so he always finds stuff out before me. I'm dreading that I might have to go to the depo. I'd rather not hear all the crap he will probably say about how horrible I am, how he's just a poor victim, etc. Yuk! H will have his wonderful guy persona I'm sure. Karen