Thanks Kat, We have had a really bad week so I feel all torn down again. I do really need to get on with my life no matter what the path may be. I'm working on getting a new job lined up to at least distract me and maybe give me some more financial security. I know we are going to have to sell the house, so I'm starting on a plan to get things in order as if we are putting it on the market soon (without telliing H). My new IC thinks my H has narsistic personality disorder and feels it is so hard to treat that I should probably be prepared for the worst. He would like to help us but since my H still feels he acted just fine and I'm the one with the problem it will be a truly hard road. I feel so sad right now.

Thanks for being here.


Me 46/H 48
M 19/T 20
S 16 D 9
Bomb 2/9/08
OW 2/29/08
Ended A 3/12/08 (LIAR)

Found proof 4/11/08
Piecing ? 8/24/08

"When the rain washes you clean... you'll know"