Hi Julia, I really feel where you are at. (I'm at the same point or just a litle further as I'm awaiting D papers). I went through stages as well, where I was totally done. In detaching, I began to ask - do I really want my RAH (not WAS - cuz my H ran) as he is?
I think it's great that you are dating. Do you date exclusively or more playing the field / casual dating?? (I read where men do more of the casual dating & thus get more experience & exposure to find the right person. And women tend to exclusively date).
Strange - about 6 months ago my female neighbor told me I should get myself a boyfriend if I wanted my H back.
Stay positive!!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Do you date exclusively or more playing the field / casual dating?? (I read where men do more of the casual dating & thus get more experience & exposure to find the right person. And women tend to exclusively date).
