This may seem like a silly question, but I wondered. Did your H ever really come to see his contribution to the breakdown of your marriage? And more specifically actually voice that understanding? The reason I ask is that my H, like many men, has always had a tough time showing his real emotions and will say such things as "I didn't mean to hurt you", rather than "Boy was I messed up there." Ya' know what I mean?
I just wondered......
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd