I am right behind you on the 4-0. I hit it in March. I got a wonderful compliment at church last night, though. An older gentleman asked me if all my kids were mine (I had the littles and D9)I laughed and said yes, and was missing one, D17. He looked at me and said, "YOU have a 17 y/o?" I said yes, since I was 22. He said,"But that would make you almost 40." I said yes, I would be, come spring. He told me I was a blessed woman, as I did not look like the mother of four, much less one that would shortly be 40, as well. Put a nice little spring to my step as I left church last night!
Now, you need to get over to Mike's thread to defend yourself.
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7