This weekend he said he is taking the kids as usual. So, there is no plan to meet more than what usually happens: at drop offs and pick ups of the kids...
That is different from last weekend (or his nameday). How do you feel about that? It sounds like you are ok. with that. It may be what the doctor ordered....you guys are taking it very slowly and as far as I am concerned, that may be the right way to go. Don't want to harp on this or contribute to your headache but I still do not get the sense that you are ALL in. I hope your enthusiasm increases with time.