Hang in there darling. It must be really frustrating for you to be a the point where you are willing to try to save your M, but don't feel "enough" coming from H.
I agree w/ Mike that time and patience are really what is needed here. I also LOVE the fact you've contacted a MC b/c this will help you not have to bear the brunt of your R. A good MC can help be the leader for your H so you don't feel as if you are always the one responsible for everything.
