Wish I could read her mind (7)>>>>

[steady]

It all sounds good nds. I'm glad you're hitting some goals and your W is including you in her 'plans'.

One piece of advice that I read somewhere - even if your W says she doesn't want a gift get one for her anyway. It doesn't have to be expensive or anything extravagant but pick something up - maybe something that has a special meaning for her, or even something she's remarked about wanting but hasn't gotten yet.

My W and I spent years not getting each other gifts for Christmas and birthdays but I think that was a mistake - and a mistake I won't repeat, even if she tells me not to get anything.

I know you are really wanting to hear the words of commitment, and I believe they will eventually come. But more importantly, her actions are showing that commitment. (In my opinion) I know it isn't exactly what you are looking for, but take comfort in the actions for now.

I'm glad you're doing well.