all that's awesome A..it really is..now give her that PMA you got and really piss her off..not on purpose of course..but she will hate to see you happy..it will gripe her butt..
Arthur, you just need to be like one of those Buckingham palace foot guards when your STBX trys to push your button. Ignore her, but if need be, bring up a something completely different. With a batchit crazy woman, if you win a debate with her, you will still lose in her mind.
Nothing new to report. Ended up a late night last night. Went for some leaving drinks straight from work at 5 and guy leaving wouldn't take money. so had about 5 there, then went to Casino and played poker, came 4th for a small profit, but you get a free drink at the FT, so that and someone else's as they didn't want one, then a guy from Iran decided I was his friend and bought me another so I only ended up buying about 4 drinks all night. Absolutely smashed and got hom about 2.30. Woke this morning (no hangover, real men don't get em....Mike ?) with £10 more in my wallet than when leaving work yesterday.....I like nights like that !!!
Bit tired today now tho, so will be chilled one at home tonight ready for boys in the morning and a fun day before going out tomorrow night. Really looking forward to tomorrow night, going out with some girls, one has become a good friend recently, haven't known her long, but is a right laugh. Nothing more than friends tho, but hopefully she and her friends will be a magnet to other women for me...lol
Nothing more than friends tho, but hopefully she and her friends will be a magnet to other women for me...lol
ya wanna borrow my BCD?? (batchittcrazydetector)
LMAO Mikey boy. I'm not sure it will work so good once the power of the beer goggles takes over. They seem to invalidate any protection method from batchitt crazy ladies !!!
uh oh, another friend leaving work today so need to go for a quick beer !!!
Nothing much to report. Had great day with the boys Sat. Took them to an indoor play area with some friends, then S6 went home with the friends and I took S2 home for a sleep. S2 and I then went over the friend for the afternoon which was great fun. Played a lot of Sing Star...lol !!!!
Went out Sat night with some different friends and was a bit to wild for me and made me think I need to change the GALing from basically drinking !!! Fun at the time but Sundays are a right off. Not hungover, but just to tired. Also need to plan something for Sundays else I tend to end up just doing nothing and it seems a waste.
Need to chase Solicitor and Bank Manager later today and then boys this afternoon which I'm really looking forward too.
Might have a car this week too, even if only temporary, but does mean I can get about a bit.
Pretty non eventful week so far which is nice and peaceful. Boys again this afternoon so will see W briefly and sure she will want to talk a bit, more about what were doing re next mediation, but I'm still yet to here back from my solicitor. Starting to wind me up now, £195 p/h and not even a curtesy call to say when he is likely to get round to looking at my stuff.
S6 told me Monday that STBX and BIL tried to get my wardrobe downstairs but couldn't and so it is now in his room. Can't quite work that one out, it's not really in the way and apparently my books and clothes are still in it (I could take all my clothes as small wardrobe at mums place). Think she is just trying to remove all traces of me. Find it all rather sad.
Well, I spoke to soon. Straight after previous post, my solicitor rang. Seems I'm totally fooked. P15535 me right of as my W, through her bad choices has fooked my life up, fooked my kids lives up and will come out of this smelling of roses.
Sols says I would not likely do better in court and threw a few suggestions in there for me to go for, with her and at mediation. The thing is, they are me backing down more and giving her more money, but in doing so I'm unlikely to be able to afford a place for me and the boys and whatever I can afford, will likely not be seen as fit to have the boys over as much as I would like. I'm so annoyed now, this woman who I gave everything to and gave my life to, had two beautiful kids with can do this to us all and seems tothink it's funny.
Really stumped for what to do next but I need to get my head together as got the boys later today and also may see her and she will ask if I've seen my solicitor.
Sorry for the bad news you got from your Sols. Would not tell her you talked to him till you let all this sink in and get your emotions under control. I hate the fact that she is the one that did this and she is the one that is going to benifit the most from it. Why do men always get the short end of the stick in D cases?
Unfortunately, I see her today, so know she will ask, especially as we have to get back to mediators to say if we want next session by this Friday. I'm just not sure what to tell her ???
I agree, men are double fooked in all of this and it's wrong, plain wrong. Women have thought for equal opportunities for years, well, not to bothered when it comes to being fair in D and they don't say much about that. (apologies to the good women on this board but I hope even you can understand both my frustration today and how in general us men get stitched up in D).
