Hey..Jackie..read you had a good time at Disney...sounds like you had a few moments..but like you said be thankful for what you have...your kids are far more important than anything else right now.. Thanks for the vote on the money..retirement...are you kidding...we have been too busy making ends meet all these years, that we have not too much..h has some money from another job in investments..he has his 401 and I have a small retirement plan where I work, but can I retire in the next 10 years..no. I also know that the years I stayed home are priceless...and I know h feels the same way..he has been overly generous with sharing his money this past year..but then I have always known him to be generous and kind..why did we have to go and screw this whole thing up..he may not be prince charming, and he made some stupid mistakes where the ff comes in...but he is an all around nice guy. GUess I need to find more ways to let him know that.
Deb...it is very touchy on what and when to say anything...you can't take back what comes out of your mouth..so you have to be really sure of how and what you say. I have not said much because he wanted space and time alone, so I feel like I have honored that, I just need to know if we have gotten any closer to any goals, is there a chance or not, a year later of ever being together again..I just need to know something. I think I am getting closer to a talk...I thought I might run it past our pastor..on how I might approach him..or maybe she has some other ideas for me..yet I have to remember that she and h talk alot so I don't want to put her on the spot.
