I had left a message at work Fri to remind h about picnic..never heard from him, almost called him again to see if he had gotten it..but I didn't..he came over Sat..and walked in with a great smile on his face..I said "What's so funny"..he said "Nothing..it's just me" I said"oh..yes it is you and I like that".So we went to "Christmas/picnic"..had a good time, but I was ready to leave after a few hours..and too many biting bugs...we talked on the way home about his sister, and church..I thanked him for going and he actually said "your're welcome".
Another thing that is bugging me, I will be getting quite a large sum of money from my Aunts estate...I know this is not what I should be thinking..but do I keep it in my name, or should I put h name on it also...I think I know what most people will say..but I also feel like the right thing to do is put his name on it.but then it becomes marital property and IF we travel down that road half would be his. But I guess I think who supported me for most of our m...he has shared "his" paycheck and never demanded that I work..just a thought to throw out.
