I may be way ahead, but I see things you don't. She stayed in the same room at a hotel with you...alone...., she "feels ashamed", she took money from you, she is letting you help her, she is letting you hug her, she is sharing feelings with you, she let you get the bed with her.......all, knowing that OM would be ticked about it all. She could have waited to get the bed when OM was done being mad, or the truck was available. She got her BED with YOU. So, call me crazy, but I think you are getting close. It's good you are not setting yourself up to possibly be hurt. But, while you are doing that, I will get you ready for possibly being happy. So, together we should get it all straightened away.
Would be a great night to go to that movie, Fireproof. Or, perhaps just get the book. (I don't give up.) In fact, one of these days I am just going to send you movie tickets so you HAVE to go.
I may be way ahead, but I see things you don't. She stayed in the same room at a hotel with you...alone...., she "feels ashamed", she took money from you, she is letting you help her, she is letting you hug her, she is sharing feelings with you, she let you get the bed with her.......all, knowing that OM would be ticked about it all. She could have waited to get the bed when OM was done being mad, or the truck was available. She got her BED with YOU. So, call me crazy, but I think you are getting close. It's good you are not setting yourself up to possibly be hurt. But, while you are doing that, I will get you ready for possibly being happy. 
