My signature line is there to remind me of helpful goals.
It's like a prayer my mom used to make me say everyday from age 15 on..
"Each word I say, each act I do I do dear Jesus for love of you this day."
Over time I tried doing just one little thing for another person a day. Now it's second nature... and not cloaked in codependence.
I think of those goals in my signature as guidelines and goals.. little pinpricks to my way of thinking.. kinda like putting all little angels on my shoulder in cheerleader's outfits when my lil red devil side whispers thoughts that usually sabotage me.
I tell you John... I'm really thinking that vacuuming in the attire previously mentioned just might be a good thing. It's definitely taking you out of your comfort zone! If it's too much, consider tighty whities and a cigar with the vacuum. You won't even need an ashtray!