I think you have got to stop pursuing him at all costs.
Do not follow him, assume things, get angry, etc. Also, try and get it out of your head about sitting next to him, being romantic. It takes a long time to get to that point. He is going to feel so much pressure from you and will rebel like a teenager.
You have got to get it in your mind that you are just friends and act like it. This means less pressure felt by him.
My h and I saw each other every weekend for a long time but we never sat next to each other or were romantic at all and it was all small talk.
It was not until this year that we could talk, hold hands or whatever.
TOH, really, do try and keep some distance or you will end up back to square one again.
These men hate feeling pressure or being smothered and mothered.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
