Finally a new wifey thread

[Esky94]

remember, KJ....WAS's always, always, ALWAYS say they are certain. stop trying to reach him, cause, kiddo, you won't.

Hey wifey! I agree with Neilh23. Don't talk to them about R. It triggers fear and bad memories and the WAS feels trapped and project it back to you as manipulation. I know you didn't mean it that way and they don't want to react that way...but they do.

Just...avoid...it. Focus on the 180s. Let the WAS react how they want to react and just let it flow over you and not into you.

I bought on book recently on the topic of original play and discovering that inner child again. The first sentence I read was "Original play does not resolve conflicts. It makes them obsolete". So I'm working on figuring out how to make this happen. It seems to make sense. The book is by O. Fred Donaldson and called Playing by Heart.



Esky