Thinking about it now and thanks for those suggestions LE, any other fun games people play with their kids ? Anything, especially those suited to these winter times so indoors.
GFI - Thanks for the input. I did come to a realisation last night. That I know deep down I would try again for my boys, so you have got me on that one. I will add though, that it would never happen and I would not pursue it. But and it's a the biggesdt but ever (Bigger than a J Lo Butt !!!), if my W turned up begging and pleading, I would consider it. It would be on my terms though and would be like starting over, a new realtionship, dating first whilst living apart, MCing, ICing and I would also just keep living life as I have been so a very loose thing and I might still meet someone else. I will no longer put my life on hold for her. I said this to my sister as I cannot look at my boys without feeling something.
oh, something that was funny. Various teachers around the chool ask you who your there for etc, so when I tell them S6, they're like, oh yeah, as if it wasn't obvious, only a slight fathers son !!! He is mini me now and S2 is a spit of me at that age.