Don't rely on someone else having to be at fault, or someone else changing their views, to have a happy life.
Five years from now you may well agree with H that your marriage was best ended. You really have no idea how you will feel then. Nor does either of you know how he will feel then.
The important thing to do right now is to try to let go of the need to be right, of the need for him to be wrong, of the need for him to suffer.
Build a new beautiful life on your strengths. Not on the possible weaknesses or remorse or guilt of others. You don't need it.
Build clean and bright :-)
Oldtimer...yes, and that is why I am trying hard to forgive and let go of the anger and pain...so that my life can go in the right direction. Thanks for the insightful reminder ! xx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
