I'm mad at your H--no offense to him as I know you love him, but I think he needs to man up and respond to you. I can just imagine though that he must have been shell shocked to get your email, and is probably at a real loss for how to respond. He is going to need to face his own guilt when he replies, unless he chooses to completely ignore the things you said about his new living situation...
You sound like you are doing very well though, and I'm so impressed with how long you've been sticking with this. Good for you that you're dating too!
Please hang in there, and definitely keep us posted with any updates,
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!