I'm so jealous! I love Take That! And I totally agree about WInter Wonderland, even including my duff last note!
Chocolates- so exciting! Are they good ones? That's very romantic; are they from Saturday guy, or one of the many other Julia-admirers dotted about the City?
I'm mad at your H--no offense to him as I know you love him, but I think he needs to man up and respond to you. I can just imagine though that he must have been shell shocked to get your email, and is probably at a real loss for how to respond. He is going to need to face his own guilt when he replies, unless he chooses to completely ignore the things you said about his new living situation...
You sound like you are doing very well though, and I'm so impressed with how long you've been sticking with this. Good for you that you're dating too!
Please hang in there, and definitely keep us posted with any updates,
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Hi Julia, I really feel where you are at. (I'm at the same point or just a litle further as I'm awaiting D papers). I went through stages as well, where I was totally done. In detaching, I began to ask - do I really want my RAH (not WAS - cuz my H ran) as he is?
I think it's great that you are dating. Do you date exclusively or more playing the field / casual dating?? (I read where men do more of the casual dating & thus get more experience & exposure to find the right person. And women tend to exclusively date).
Strange - about 6 months ago my female neighbor told me I should get myself a boyfriend if I wanted my H back.
Stay positive!!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Ms M - I don't think I want him back as he is in any way shape or form... I want to casually date but I think my heart always leans towards exclusive dating. Trying to stay positive, your post just helped me thanks.
Do you date exclusively or more playing the field / casual dating?? (I read where men do more of the casual dating & thus get more experience & exposure to find the right person. And women tend to exclusively date).