The results are in...Dust myself off & start again

[theotherhalf]

Treese H family is a tough thing to handle. My H's family is big and we are all sooo close. We all have hung out together like friends all these years. For awhile I still went to family stuff. I still get invited but have turned down the last couple. It just doesn't feel right anymore and it hurts way too bad.

Last year for the holidays I spent them with H and his family. Thanksgiving H was waffling and so we spent alot of time together. At Christmas he asked me to go. I wasn't going to. All went well until the end of the night. (Back then H was drinking VERY heavily). H got very drunk. He asked for a kiss when I left. I gave him one. He followed me to my road then went on past towards OW's. That hurt very deaply. I never said a word about it though.

So I understand how tough this is. Like someone else said, I guess you have to do what is right for YOU. Don't worry or think about H. Make the most out of your holidays and if that means spending it with loved ones. Than do it.!!!