Sorry TL that you are down. Keep in mind it's only a piece of paper. It can't change what you once were, or who you were as a couple, or take away your fond memories it is only a symbol of the current state of affairs.

Enjoy your time for now. Find new interests if you can.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"