For the Guy with Kids and a WW Neunzehn(19)

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Beej, you're way too far ahead. I have no expectation that she is done with OM. Odds are they had a spat of some sort. I can pray, though.

And thank you for the prayer. I take all the prayers I can get.

ILF, its just typical of how she reasons things. She DOESN'T. I thought about telling her to just cancel her health coverage. Like you said, she can change it if we DO divorce. Then she can pay the daycare bill. But then, on the flip side, it does help her feel the financial pain.

About the texts...I think they said both parts. The strong me and the melty me. I fully expected her to be angry about them and try her best to avoid me at all cost. Getting the call from her totally threw me off.

Tonight, I worked a late night. After I left, I called her cell phone to ask if it would be okay to stop by and drop off Amanda's Converse.

Amanda answers the phone and we talk. I ask her to ask her mom if its okay to come drop off her shoes.

"Mom said okay. She asked if you could bring some Tums for Juli."
"Okay. Ask mom if she needs anything else."
After a minute, "Mom said that we ran out of cough medicine too, if you could bring some."

I hit the store and get to the apartment. Everyone is at the neighbors apartment just across the way. Amanda pops her head out just as I walk to the door. They are helping them set up a turtle tank. I stand outside talking to her. I tell her to get her sister so that I can say hello. She comes outside and we go into the wife's place. Talking to her, I find out that she was sick today and didn't go to school. She threw up last night all over her bed.

And she has the top bunk.

We go into the kitchen and I start to give her a couple tums. Everyone comes back and we all start to talk. The wife and I talk a bit about Juli. S14 still has a swollen ankle and I'm concerned. I'm playing with the kids. I sit on the sofa for a bit and the wife comes to sit also. She talks about what happened last night and we all kind of gross out but its also funny, so we are all laughing too. Wifey looks very tired. She tells me about some things she did today. I ask if she is working this Saturday and she says that she doesn't even know. She said she was supposed to work this past weekend. I see that she rented some movies and I tell her about the movie "Borat" that I watched last night.

That movie was F'ing hilarious!

I ended up staying for about an hour and start to get Juli to bed. Wife is busy cleaning things in the girls room and bathroom still. I'm saying my goodbyes and let the wife know that I'm going to leave. When I came into the apartment, I noticed a bag of trash and a plastic pot and some dead branches. Saying my goodbyes, I ask the wife is the trash is being picked up tomorrow. She says no, and that she'll get the trash to the dumpster. I take a trash bag full of pukey stuff outside for her. Leaving, she is in the kitchen. I give her a wave and tell her to have a goodnight, with a smirk. She says thanks and tells me goodnight.

I took her trash to her dumpster for her and head home.

Sorry Ldub, nothing good out there.....yet.

I expect not to have any real contact until maybe Saturday, if she works. I'll ask if I can hang out with the kids somewhere.