Also, when he is over, try not to ask him questions and just let him be. He may see this as being pressured. Kind of pretend like he is not there and just give him room. If he wants to talk to you, he will come around. I am not saying to totally ignore him. Just give him space and peace and quiet.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19