thanks mwg,
he really hasn't "moved" home he is just here because of truck being down. and I know your right about the space. I really have been struggling with this. I know that he needs time alone. And I want to give him that, but at the same time I was us to get the point that he'll "talk" to me.

this morning he came in and went right to the basement. I KNEW to leave him alone. But I went down and asked him if all was okay. He said yea, why. I said just wondered and went back up and finished getting ready for work. I did go back down and talked to him a little bit. We almost got into an argument about finances but didn't get that far. I was prepared for him to not be here when I got home. I was prepared for him to say he was getting the truck fixed and gone. None of it happened. Tonight I let him be. He was in a better mood.

It sure is windy in TOH's home \:\)

Last edited by theotherhalf; 11/13/08 04:35 AM.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!