thanks mwg, he really hasn't "moved" home he is just here because of truck being down. and I know your right about the space. I really have been struggling with this. I know that he needs time alone. And I want to give him that, but at the same time I was us to get the point that he'll "talk" to me.
this morning he came in and went right to the basement. I KNEW to leave him alone. But I went down and asked him if all was okay. He said yea, why. I said just wondered and went back up and finished getting ready for work. I did go back down and talked to him a little bit. We almost got into an argument about finances but didn't get that far. I was prepared for him to not be here when I got home. I was prepared for him to say he was getting the truck fixed and gone. None of it happened. Tonight I let him be. He was in a better mood.
It sure is windy in TOH's home
Last edited by theotherhalf; 11/13/0804:35 AM.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!