Quote: I thought about asking h about any of this..good idea or should I keep mouth shut?
in the end it really wont get you anywhere you need or want to be...
I've known plenty of people (my mother included) who have talked with the op's spouse...it's simply another source of useless info in most cases.
always nice to see you stop in sue, I do hope your h figures things out soon so that you might have some real peace in your life..but then I suppose our peace like our happiness should not depend on what our wayward spouses choose to do with their lives.
