I'm sorry I have absolutely no advice to impart other than be true to yourself Maria. Do what you know will make you happiest and keep the kids stable. First and foremost, a happy mom is a good mom. I have no idea what that happiness might look like for you, whether it will include your H or not, but I do know that you will find it because you are AMAZING!!!!!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!