Rick and T2 thanks for the greetings...I never thought about that h is not moving on..at least not in the sense of dating..d talk..he has relaxed so much..I see such joy in his eyes..especially when he is at church. I do feel that he has been confused... T2...as somewhat hard as the day was to come and go...this has been a good 10 months in some ways..like you a year ago we were on eggshells...tense...now we are both finding ourselves and I pray that we will be able to piece a new m back..
For the old timers here..I ran into ff stbx tonight..he did not know h and I were s..he made a comment about h always being at his house...said "she" was drinking as much as ever and that even people a her work(which is my h work too) ahve commented about her..she calls in "sick" alot of Mondays..screws up work........hmmmmmmmshe is digging herself into trouble. I thought about asking h about any of this..good idea or should I keep mouth shut? I did ask h if they are still on the same bowling team..I thought for sure that she would have replaced h with her lover boy..for the past 2 years I have been so bent about this bowling with her..now I don't care..am glad if this is what he enjoys..great..sorry that it has to be with her...she has to be the center of everything..can't he see that..seems lots of others have..
