Wow..Jethro..you are right up there with KAW and the wise wisdom you have given me. I lol at one of us needing to kick the other one!!
I knwo what you mean about the sitch being kinda different..it is not a clear cut and dry sep..anger..nasty words..that I so often read here..it is tough for me to respond back to others, as I don't understand how 2 people that took vows and pledged to love one another can become so angry and mean..maybe that is yet to come with my h and I ..who knows.
I think I will wait and see as Oct. comes along and see if he tells me anything about his lease..when I am alone with him, and feel like his mood is ok, I will ask him..nothing heavy. He did call me this a.m at work to ask if anymore sightings of bats...our kids are sleeping upstairs, but I just can't get up there yet...so at least he made the effort to call..again that has not been him this past year..to call me first. I know that I need to leave him alone alittle more..I just get so lonely at times. I am going out this week to local play with coworkers..and have book club and church stuff coming up..
