If H needs something from me, like money, to help him out, how in the world does he think (threatening) telling me he filed for divorce is going to get me to do anything for him???
H must think a divorce is going to force some money his way???
In this state, a fault state, he disserted us. H has left me in charge and with full responsiblity for our 3 kids. I've had to do everything for 3 years ( and even before he moved out).
H will not come out ahead if he divorces me. Even if we have to sell the house...or he just surrenders it to me in order to get out of the mortgage...he still isn't going to benenfit financially in the coming months by filing for a divorce.
H needs money NOW.
H is angry.
In church Sunday we talked about when we are under pressure what is inside of us comes out...like a balloon.
We talked about the importance of living God's way, living in His Glory so that we are under pressure we will be better things will come out of us in order to deal with it.
H is under pressure and I see fear, anger.....and other scary stuff.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
