T2L, so I surprised you .. I surprised myself. Your right I won't see H, I probably scared him. I think that OW will start pushing H to get a D from me after the New Year, so I want to rock the boat a bit and see what happens. Those posters in her neighborhood are looking good! lol
Marisol, I think you should talk to his Grandfather -- does he live locally? If he has impact on H go for it. I would not ask him to intercede on your behalf just to talk to him, let him know you are still committed to the family and that H is having an A. So H gets mad at you. They all do. Good luck.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09