Hi there Kalni -

its strange - the opportunity your H has is one i would love to have!!!

But I can add - and I have alluded to before - if he is a typical DAM - or even a half baked DAM then he will be looking for signs from you - you are looking for signs from him. Something has to break this impasse... what would break it for you? what would break it for him?

best - GFI

And - thanks Kalni for stopping by my thread - you gave me lots to think about!


Me: 40ish
W: 40ish
Together: 20 ish years
Married: 10ish Years