Daisy is so right- look at the big picture, not each little pixel on the screen. I understand how it is- I would be doing the same thing if H was living at home with me. It is easier to take a mental break when they aren't there all the time.
I agree also that you should continue to stay away a few nights. Make it sound like it is something you need/want to do for yourself, instead of doing it because he requested space. That way you can look like you are having fun, GAL instead of avoiding him.
It does sound like your H may be starting to deal with some of his issues? Hopefully that is why you are feeling a positive change between the two of you. Actually you are doing a great job with yours too (always reacting and analysing).
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
