"its amazing how someone loves you so much that they marry you and then hate you enought to go fu**ing off the deep end nasty like your Batchitt Crazy wife does"
That has happened to me - the level of venom and hate feels unbelievable - its as if your W cannot even bear to breathe the same air - that feels unbelievable! you must feel like i did - like you're poles apart - as if you cannot understand how you got together in the first place - but Arthur - people rarely feel like that about other people in the normal course of events - sure we have the view that this person or that person is not someone that we want to spend any time with - but the feeling is not one of hate - we opt in and opt out of relationships with people - rarely do we hate them...I would venture that you still have strong feelings of attraction for your W and vice versa - its the situation that is causing those feelings at the moment - its the way she is dealing with things at the moment that is bringing up these feelings which is different to your feelings about her as a person - and same for her - although you're clearly out of synch - as I am with my W - but I still love my W - i HATE the decisions she is making...I have rationalised them and I do not HATE my W.
Arthur - perhaps...consider that???
As ever - KBO - GFI
Me: 40ish W: 40ish Together: 20 ish years Married: 10ish Years
