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[optimistwife]

Ever get the feeling that more is happening in the background than usual? You know- the old intuition thingy that we've all become so attuned to?

Well- Monday was the night I needed help and H was absent. I had wondered before hand because when I mentioned seeing him during the week he just got a little squirrelly- like 'we'll see'. 'Depends how busy things are'. etc... Fair enough and I let it drop.

Last night he texted that he was gonna be at school until late- and suggeseted I come to his place to spend the night. I probably should have stayed home but was feeling needy and went over. I didn't get there until late- close to 10pm.

The first thing I noticed when I walked in door was that he had cleaned/vaccumed. Hadn't seen it clean previously. Also it hit me that some of the stuff that his EA/OW/BF? had stored there was gone. Remember back when he had told me that she had moved out of the building, but left stuff behind. Since she is still in school with him and has some rotations in town I asked if she would be coming back and staying there (with him)- he replied 'who knows'.

So- not sure if his apt. was originally hers, or if there was some grand plan at some point for them to live together, or what. But I like that it is gone! An organizer full of bathroom stuff including feminine products- ugh. School notes, a 6 pack of beer (H doesn't drink).

There was also a pizza in the fridge- so I know what he was doing on Monday night.

Anyway- he was a bit distant overall, not much to say, but was fairly cuddly. No ML in a while, but falling asleep in eachothers arms is a good substitute.

I hope that whatever happened on Monday night was a step forward for our R. It will probably be one of those things that I will never know, but my gut tells me something happened.

Oh- and today was horrible. Came home this morning, took pain meds, took a nap- and woke up with a migraine. The horrible type that causes you to vomit. How do you get a migraine when you are taking pain meds? I am now just waking up for real right now- (have been stumbling around intermittantly to care for the dogs, vomit, then back to bed). Finally feeling better- but wiped out.