Docs scanned first thing, e-mail sent and solicitor selcted late afternoon so hopefully some news tomorrow.
Parents evening this afternoon and oh what fun the STBX was. I find her very weird (why do i sound surprised ?? lol). Meet her in his class then other mum goes so were alone
B = Batchitt
B 'u spoke to sols yet ? A - Yeah, sent him docs to go through
on way to hall to met teacher
B - So you've accepted now you not getting any money ? A - I don't want to talk to you, were here for S6, the rest is for the sols
So we saw teacher and S6 doing as expected but I think he's come on leaps. he's the youngest in his year and in bottom 6 in his class at the english and maths, but i asked if he was the year younger (boys about 3-6 months behind apparently at this age) where would he be and the teacher said top part of middle.
So I drive STBX home to have the car and collect thee boys from my sis
B - so when u having them overnight (again) A - I replied couple back and forth then say, hang on hang on, I said no more talking bout this, I am not getting sucked in again like monday like I let myself and lost it. leave it, i will go silent B - So didn't you feel low when mediator said they will do better having over nights with both parent A - No, I know this is not my doing, it's like me asking do you not feel bad about ruining their lives by cheating on them and not trying...don't remember answer but said leave it again, i'm getting sucked in again. silent next time.
so we pull up at house and as she is getting out
B - So when u getting car A - I thought i had one this morning, then laughed and said, that's always the next line of attack after the over night issue.
so as sh's getting out i just say, see u later and got a bye.
oh, she also asked me at some point that S6 said i'd shouted at him a lot last time I had them and I said I don't recall that but they were fighting and winding each other a lot, so I might of said something. When i got to my sisters, after first telling S6 how great he was doing at school, i ask him and he said i was so I apologised. Then, it turns out after dropping them there and staying for a bit, STBX was heard by BIL shouting at S6.^, shut up, you do my head in. or words to that effect, so very hypercritical and I said nothing as harsh as that.
feeling much better already. Couple of beers on the way home wwith mates and now home ready for bed.
Does she love to pull your chain or what. You need to either drive separately from her or just not talk at all. Wow, its amazing how someone loves you so much that they marry you and then hate you enought to go fu**ing off the deep end nasty like your Batchitt Crazy wife does.
Take care A, hopefully it will be over soon for you and you can get a place of your own.
