I think he does care...we are having a bat problem...in the attic..woke up at 5 am to one flying past me..I nearly had a heart attack...called h to come over at about 8 and he searched the b-room and could not find..we closed door..dd and I slept downstairs..son came down this morning and it or another was in the bathroom..a friend at our local animal control came and got it..they aren't suppose to, and I have a pro coming sat.. so it is going to be a long time before I sleep back in that room..alone...h ended the conversation mon night that if I was ok to sleep downstairs and I was not too worried then he would not worry either... and he has called about about dd car and who I got to come sat..duh...maybe I should have whined my way to asking him to come and stay with us..but or l-room is not big enough for 3 or 4 to sleep...and that would have shown weakness..he knows that mice and bats make me sick to think about. Enough bat story..
Just thought it was nice that he is showing some care..and he really should it's his dd and house too..I told dd that maybe we could put it on the market this weekend and move!!!!!!!!