Hope
{{Thud}} the sound of me hitting the floor! YESSSSSS! Standing ovation I like it girl! You did so fabulous! I'm so proud of you.

You did not talk R which is perfect, you did not talk about OW which is perfect, you did not try to be his conscience about D15, you were the epitome of confident, you dropped some of that feminine nature, you laughed, you met the admiration needs. I really think you did so splendid! And you walked away 1st....LOL BRAVO! I love the follow up email just the right amount of flirting for now. NO EXPECTATIONS ok. This will keep you safe. Expect to prolly not see much. It will be hard for H to accept the compliments as they usually feel like crap about them selves. Just keep going. Have you finished SAA?

You took control of your self in the emotional area-which tends to come out of the mouth LOL and executed a perfect Plan A(that's if you were in one).

Very Nice and I bet you feel so much more confident and strong don't you.

Keep it up do everything you did today. Keep it light, feminine, cheerful, try to find something to laugh at, control your emotions no talking about R or OW and do not be conscience about D16, walk away 1st or end convo 1st, meet EN per SAA.

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Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca