Thanks, guys! That's what I needed...just some emphathy. Maybe I can set it aside now and not worry about it for him!
TxMom...I've been posting to your thread. Hopefully, my words will be helpful in your quest!
So, I'll try to upload a new pic of my boys at the game Saturday onto my FB profile. The one there now is just the two of them sitting on the couch...I took it the night I set up the account!!!
Hope everyone else's day is going well.
Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
wow sis thats alot to digest. dont worry about it to much, and thanks for reminding ME what I told you. I needed to hear that today myself. love ya
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
So, I did a little reading up myself. I think I'm okay. It appears she doesn't have a case since she carried out an A with him. Now, if the A ends and he threatens to fire her or if he makes it difficult to work there after she ends the A or something like that, then that's another matter.
I guess my assets are protected...if he dies, I get it all right now anyway. If he lives, she can't take the business right now. If we D, he'll need to get the other legal paperwork done to make sure the assets are divided the way he wants them upon his death.
I feel better. She'd have a hard time proving she was forced into this 1 and 1/2 year affair, that she was forced to leave her H because of it, and that she was too stupid to sue him long before it got to the point of leaving her H. I mean, obviously, she consented.
We are back to my H wants OW and thinks he's gonna marry her. But, he's still making sure his kids are provided for in the event of his death! Same place we were last week, I guess! Oh, except that somehow today that seems better than it did last week. What's that?? Could it be detachment? Surely not...not me!
Hugs, guys! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
I read some law...I'm good like that! No, seriously, I did read the law, but it made no sense, so I read some responses from attorneys to questions that were sent in to their websites. I don't know how valid, but it kind of makes sense. How can she claim that she didn't consent to a lengthy A? I mean her H made good money...he could have supported her while she sued the pants off my H and took his business last year when he "forced" her to have sex with him at the tradeshow! But, at this point, she'd look like a scorned lover if she tried to sue. H might have to pay her, but he wouldn't lose it all!
But, no matter to me. I can't share with him. He's not talked to me about it. He still involved with her. It's all really mute. We'll see!
Are you home yet? Is W there?
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
