I think one of the things we learned in this process is that there isn't any "right" thing to do--it is what feels right to you.
Too bad he didn't take an opportunity to pick up on the convo, but kudos to you for not forcing it! You said he has a certain amount of words per day, maybe he needs to process it and think about it and he will say something if he feels it is pertinent.
Continue to be the strong person you are and do what you feel is right in your heart!
