This is a horrible thought, but when I saw this I was thinking the troll's baby is probably too scared to come out, who can blame him/her??? Karen
Karen, great minds think alike because I've been saying the same thing now for 2 weeks. I just have visions of this baby in there with her hands and feet wedged tight... I'm sure shes too scared, at least right now shes protected from them.
Kat, Lost and Dar....Thanks. This is the best I can do and I can't be an emotional mess because my kids need me more than ever right now. I also don't choose to be.
I forgot to post this the other day. I was browsing myspace and I always stop by the Trolls page and her daughters because you never know what interesting things you will find. The kid has updated her page with a little blurb about her and I almost puked. She put that there are two things she loves in her life, softball and hanging out with her mommy and her boyfriend (insert H name) they are the best of both worlds to me. I almost wanted to puke. I have mentioned it to H and he says he can't understand why she would put that because they don't hang out etc... My only comment was, "She's 13, why would she lie about it?" Needless to say he didn't have an answer for me and needed to "go". WHATEVER!!!!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Corey, why do you want to torture yourself? There isn't any need to. Kids say lots of things based on their perception of things, it could be true or it could be her twist on things. It really doesn't matter. What they do together doesn't matter, Troll and Trollet don't matter, what your H is messing up now doesn't matter.
The ONLY thing to concern yourself about is your sweet kids and yourself. There is really no reason to keep sweating about it anymore. Get to where you are feeling good about you and where you are at.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Kat I know what you are saying. I was just on myspace looking at some other stuff and I hadn't looked in a while.
It really doesn't matter. I had just meant to put it in one of my posts and didn't. I also know how much the internet "bugs" H and he has major paranoia about his name or picture being on there, so its kind of funny in a way.
Originally Posted By: kat727
Get to where you are feeling good about you and where you are at.
Funny thing, I'm actually at a pretty good place right now. I feel good. I went out and had some fun this weekend and have lots of stuff planned for the coming weeks, so all things considered...I'm ok.
I can't say it doesn't bother me, but more than anything it makes me sad. Sad for my kids, but also a little sad for the Troll's kid. Shes going to be a very disillusioned and disappointed young lady. Given her circumstances, I believe she would/does cling to any attention given to her and make a lot out of it because she is neglected emotionally by her mother.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
