hi sue,

nice to hear from you though I wish you were in better spirits.

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September 8 will be our 25th anniv..boy what a great day that is going to be..I have half decied to not send any card to him. I have given him a b day card...but I just can't think of giving him a card for the celebration of our m, when I don't know what he wants or feels...this is really hard for me...


...really bumbs me out to hear that this is all going on and your 25th comming round the corner...I know it's not at all the same but my 5th came during our seperation...I didn't know what the heck to do either. I had decided that I'd buy a card and have it ready to give ONLY if h made mention of or gave me a card. anniversary was noted by h as he felt it necessary to note it (or rather to let me know that he knew what day it was) but there was no celebration of any kind. kinda sucky oh well.

what do you want to do for the anniversary?
do you want to mention it or leave it to him?
do you want to send or give a card?
do you want to simply recognize the day but not attach any "significance" to it?
how have you celebrated other anniversaries.

tell me sue...asside from the church and stripping in the stairwell (tee hee ok stripping the woodwork) and other redecorating things...what are you doing for you? how are you spending your "free" time?


{{{{sue}}}}

LL