The dedicated Dan prayers keep going up. Oh, and one other thing that struck me in the moment. I have found one item pertaining to Dan for which I can say I am very much alike.
----"Even saying "sorry your parents are sick", to him, he is like "Why are you sorry? You didn't make them sick..." " ----
I amy not always say it but I always am thinking it whenever someone tries to "fill a void" with the "S" bomb. It kind of drives me nuts. Very much a pet-peeve.
Doing a little catch up with you right now. Try and be the rock that I know you can be for him. He needs the support of his wife and in most cases if he appears not to be receptive to your encouragement and assistance it is a "smoke-screen". It is your chance to continue to shine. Be there for him, it is important to him beyond measure. I doubt you would do it any different but I am just saying and placing emphasis on it. Peace to all of you my dear.